(I found it somewhere, I forgot where, not written by me obviously, but you might wanna have a look and think for a sec cos its quite worth to read i personally think)

Things I’ve learned

I’ve learned -
that you cannot make someone love you.
all you can do is be someone who can be loved.
the rest is up to them.

I’ve learned -
that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back

I’ve learned -
that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned-
that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned -
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
after that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned -
that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do
but to the best you can do.

I’ve learned -
that its not what happens to people that’s important. It’s what they do about it.

I’ve learned -
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned -
that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.

I’ve learned -
that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned -
that it’s a lot easier to react than it is to think.

I’ve learned -
that you can keep going long after you think you can’t.

I’ve learned -
that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned -
that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first,
the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I’ve learned -
that learning to forgive takes practice.

I’ve learned -
that there are people who love you dearly, but just don’t know how to show it.

I’ve learned -
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down
will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned -
that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.
same goes for true love.

I’ve learned -
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had
and what you’ve learned from them
and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned -
that no matter how good a friend is,
they’re going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned -
that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others.
sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned -
that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned -
that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned -
that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other
and just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do..

I’ve learned -
that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change

I’ve learned -
that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret.
it could change your life forever.

I’ve learned -
that two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.

I’ve learned -
that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I’ve learned -
that no matter the consequences,
those who are honest with themselves get farther in life.

I’ve learned -
that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learned -
that its hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice
and not hurting peoples feelings and standing up for what you believe.

I’ve learned -
that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

and I continue learning...